

"At The Refinement Studio LLC, we cultivate awareness; we shape character, and we prepare children to lead. We understand that confidence and character are developed over time through short, daily lessons, and continued support. We use social etiquette as a powerful tool to build the next generation of kingdom-minded leaders. I am grateful for the opportunity to partner with you to develop a strong Christian leader."
Miss Cynthia
Founder, The Refinement Studio LLC
As we created our Tea Time Learnings Society©, a solid, proven process emerged:
- We recognized that a student must be able and willing to learn.
- Additionally, we believe that true learning happens at the family dinner table.
- Finally, we believe that students need an opportunity to practice what they have learned so it becomes part of who they are.
It led us to create our seven-step process:
Our memberships provide the opportunity for long term support and coaching.

Tea Time Learnings Society©
Miss Cynthia will teach your child one lesson that will change her life, teach YOU how to teach that same lesson to your child, and make it a part of your family's everday life!
If you can teach your child to ride a bike, you can teach him these lessons too. Miss Cynthia offers you full support!



Miss Cynthia:

"Most young men believe that etiquette classes are for "girls." Miss Cynthia, through her creative delivery model, has been able to dispell that myth. She has delivered sessions in a mentoring program designed for young male teens. These teens spent 3 sessions with her, and although they went into the session thinking, "What is this about", they came away excited about the classess. They have unanimously said, they were glad that they went throught the session, and have even practiced what they learned. They enjoyed the experience because Miss Cynthia made them feel comfortable from the beginning, using some of her personal experiences to put them at ease.
Miss Cynthia has a permanent place in our program, not only because ofher expertise in this area, but also because of her authenticity and openess with our group of young teens. She gets them hooked from the very first session, and they truly enjoy the experience. They have made statements like, "I am glad that I went through this, and went to the Gentleman's Tea, because I never had tea before. Another young man stated, "Now I have answers to questions about etiquette that I didn't feel comfortable asking before."
I am grateful to Miss Cynthia, for all of the quality time she spent with our young men. She met them where they were, and brought them along, and the results are phenomenal!" - Jeannie S, New York
“I enjoyed the meditation time. I liked the “challenges” we had to do every night. It gave us the opportunity to work out what we were learning.”
- Yvonne M, New York
"I liked the learning styles information. I like learning more about myself. I also liked learning about leadership qualities."
- Julia C, New York
"We had an open and honest forum... it was raw and authentic. Miss Cynthia talked about things that effected our lives. It was a safe and non-judgemental environment."
- Dominique J, New York
“Miss Cynthia creates excellent children’s etiquette events here at the Club. Her small class sizes allow for personalized attention to each child. Parents just rave about her teaching skills and how much information they retain. Miss Cynthia has quickly become a part of our Club Events Calendar.”
- Mrs. Amy Beardsley-Comerer, Clubhouse Manager, The Country Club of Rochester


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